|Seeks Solace, I am sincerely sorry for the way your childhood was, no one deserves that, especially not from ones own mother. Our parents influence our identity more than any other person we meet.
I would say, no longer give your energy to the past, as it cannot predict your future unless you live in it. The greatest gift you have is your child, as you so wisely said; use that bond of love to control your thoughts when you find yourself drifting into depression.
The last sentence of your post is really the secret to life. I for one am here anytime you need someone to talk to. Hope to hear more from you.
the first post couldve been deleted because of the laungage they use.
i want to say that i had almost the same childhood. my dad was physically and mentally abusive, and my mom did nothing. this caused nightmares in my early 20's and it effected my whole life. trust me my dad was 10x's worse than your mom. i believe he has mental issues.
this effected my three siblings lives, and in their relationships, and how they parent they kids.
when i got into my late 20's i was able to get over all what happened to me.
i also felt like i will always be depressed my whole life because of it. but i am content and get depressed only a little compared to my pass.
i also stop talking to negative family and friends, and only surround myself with positive people.
your siblings with come around when they see their mother's ways.
it will not always be like this i promise. private message me!
|I completly understand you, nobody had great childhood
But sometimes it's not enough to talk to somebody or seeking loneleness. Maybe you should try find some advice in your problem. One of the best way is to read about it and think about it make up your mind, best way is that you can explain all in your way you want it and not like doctor is saying you to do it his way. sorry for my english i'm from europe.
Hi there ryprom, thanks for replying to my thread.
I read constantly, I nearly always have my head buried in one book or another.
Thanks for the link, I will take a look. Gives me something to think about.
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