This is personal as I am unaware of what to do. I am a 20 year old female.. I have realized that I masturbate when I am under great stress, or because I am upset about something or because I am just lonley...I dont masturbate everyday but there will be days where I do and then I dont.. I dont look at pornography, I have not had sex, and I dont plan on having sex until marriage... I just cant control myself!! Am I depressed? or what?? I need HELP!!! I want to stop.. I need to find some other comfort!!!
It's a possibility...I'm a young 16 year old boy with the same problem but they're are times where I will masturbate for the pleasure but I only usually masterbate when I'm upset because my girlfriend yells at me alot for alot of my immaturities like how I honestly don't trust her around other guys...She's very trustworthy but I just get bad feelings and she yells at me for deleting her contacts over MSN so then it just makes me depressed cause she threatens to leave me because of it. I don't think you're depressed I think you're just upset because you're alone.