I met this girl at a club , she caught my eye and i had to talk to her .
I had couple of drinks so "drunk courage kicked" in and made a move
but i dont normally . I am very passive and shy most of the times,
we danced talked and i got her number. It was a good night.
I called her about 4 days later and we talked a bit , but i found that was very difficult to talk to her she would only respond with simple comments
, we stoped talking for about a month , then one day i get a text and we started to talk again, it seemed like we were geting along and conversation was much better.
Somehow it came up that she is a very "shallow" person and only goes for good looking guys , witch kind of bothered me but didnt say much about that .We would talk on the phone from like 1 am to 4am at times , we would text all the time, So we finally went out to watch a movie and we drove around talked and had prety good time.
Yesterday ,for some reason she asked how much i made at work , i responded "does it really mater" and kind of kidded around , well i told her an estimated amount and told her yea its ok for now , she said well if you dont like it ,do something you like .....i said i dont know what i want to do?..
she said "eh your annoying me" under her breath , it bothered me beacuse this girl is spoiled rich dadys girl that gets everything ...i pretended like i didnt hear that and told her , hey let me call you back.
I called her about 30 min later , and i told her "did i wake you" (it was midnight witch is when we usually talk) ...she said well i was falling a sleep
whats up? , she seemed bothered so we only talked for couple minutes and told her well il let you go to sleep, she said "oook" in a annoyed/sarcastic voice. After that she text me saying "wake me up and ditch me..Thanks..night" . I text back with "sorry...dont want to annoy you ...good night."
Things were going good and this happens , i text her today , but no reply...
im thinking this is prety much over , i was falling for her and was really liking her ...
Things i sould point out:
-she is white / phillipino
-wealthy familly
-is a dancer/ teacher (jaz, ballet, tap , does musicals)
-goes to college but only takes dance classes
-very sarcastic
-all into her self and looks
-very "stuck up"
-feels shes better than other people
-very materialistic
-very hard to talk to
-she is 20
-i am 23
Reasons i though it probably wouldnt have worked out is that we are of totally different backgrounds and ethnicity , circle of friends , cant have semi intelligent conversation , and she is selfish (thinks the world revolves around her because she is very good looking.
so ....is it for the best that we stop talking ?
Thank you in advance for the advise or comments.