delete you true love from your life?

if it is causing you a great deal of pain and/or stress being reminded of this person, then it would be easyest to remove yourself from the environment/lifestyle of seeing this person continualy.

it really depends on your ability to sustain yourself and your happyness with the reminder of this person being there with you. if you constantly feel pain each time you see them and it doesent fade with time. then if it doesent require an abnormal amount of changes to remove yourself from this/these reminders then it might be best for you to remove them from your life.

on the other hand if you can adapt and accept that your futures do not rest together then it might be a better outcome for you. i remember a very prominant quote(possibly from a movie im not sure) that reads something like "our fate has always been together, but never intertwined" everyone reacts to stressfull situations in different ways.

in short, if you believe you can find a way to stay around this person and be happy, you will most likely find this is the best answer. if you cannot, then it might be best to remove yourself from the environment.

Thanks for the advice, I've actually been 6 months without her (ok, we have spoken from time to time but I tried to push her away because she was false judging) But it's been a couple of days that I've "came back on the scene" and my heart skips a heartbeat each time I see her on msn...


You know, I never knew how hard breaking up was, no one talked about it before I went out with a girl...now I know why, because it hurts them to conjure up the past...it's sad and really painful, I suppose the only thing I have to do is wait and see like you said...
but I still got this gut feeling : "What if tomorrow never comes for me? or for her?"
who knows that one of might have a serious accident and pass away...
then I would have never have said to her how much I feel...

I much I adore her...and...that sometimes, I hate not being with her...
anyway if anyone here is reading this who is with someone, tell them how much you love them, hold them so tight...because there's no love...like true love...

thanks again...and if anyone wants to put there opinions on, they are welcome to...