I have a relationship with this man for 3 years. He have a 15 years habit for subtances (most of everything). Since he met me, he gradually reduced and reaching the point where he is completely off from everything (including methadone).
Within the years of our relationship, seems that i have the biggest presure of all. I supports him in any ways and will always be there next to him but he does not seems understand about the stress that he have caused to me.
I begin to feel that my whole effort for him are useless. I kept telling him about my situation in my position being the lady who does not touch any drugs at all but sadly he seems does not care and understand. He always want me to understand and support him for everything.
In some ways he is a very loving person that i would spend my life with. He have a very loving families as well. I love him so much but i am confused whether I should stay helping him but i'll be in a great pain of pressure or leave him with a great depression because im leaving the greatest man that i could ever found?

Until this moment, i still can not find someone who could at least tell me what to do and to relax. Your answer/s will be my last resort of my decision.