My daughter's 18 and this guy is 21 and she's been dating, living with him for the past year and has tried to break things off with him and says she's gonna and keeps going back. It's a toxic relationship. She seems to believe that smoking pot is really not a big issue also which totally blows my mind. I have not brought her up this way. This last episode she calls me at 8:30pm crying that I have to come get her and then I end up having to keep the both of them apart. It was awful. I brought her home and she stayed in her bed one night and then proceeded to lie to me and fabricate stories for 7 days that she was dating other guys, staying over girlfriends, etc. and all along she was with him. She has had a lieing history with me in the past but being that she's 18 I am totally devasted that she still feels the need to lie to me and why on earth would she want to be with someone she knows is unhealthy for her. She has not even had the courtasy to apologize to me for lieing. She's suppose to start college on the 31st and I was going to allow her to drive one of our trucks, but now have told her NO... that this decision making of hers has shown me that she is certainly not mature enough to be behind a wheel of a truck. Right now I am so hating her that I don't even want to talk to her. Every time I do it just upset me more and I'm having a problem just dealing with work right now. She does keep in contact with her Dad (not her real Dad) and she knows she has a bed at home to come home to. I just don't know what to do anymore. I told her if they got into it again she was to call 911 and not family members at this point since it has happened 4 times that I know of and she and he will have to deal with the consequences. I want to turn him in for dealing pot but then I know my daughter will probably go down too. Just don't know what to do anymore. I'm seeking counseling soon just to be able to hopefully understand this all better. Any suggestions?