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Q: Dating a Divorced man
asked by: smileskiss on January 7th, 2009
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I have being dating a divorced man for the past 4 months now, i fall for him, because he his very caring and nice guy, he is 15years older than I. He propose marriage to me on the 1st of jan 2009. But i am very scared because i don't know the consequences and stress getting married to a divorced man, and he keep telling me much about his ex, wife and she had got 2 boyz for him.


As for me from his attitude i tzught he stilll love his wife, and it was his wife that ask for the divorce.He always mention my wife is like this and like that, what advises and suggestions you have for me in this issues.

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ServiceU
replied on May 13th, 2009
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i am 32 and my b/f is a divorced 51 y.o man. i love him very much, and he is very kind hearted.
you have to have along talk with him and tell him how you feel, and how he feels.
my ex monster b/f talked about his ex a lot, and i let it go. and during the 5 years i was with him, 2 1/2 years he was in love with his ex.
please do not walk into a relationship without knowing the guy completely.
have you heard of the 6 month rule, that's how long it takes to really get to know someone. 50% of marriages end in divorce, so dont rush into things.
marry him if your heart and mind is 100% that this guy is the one.
good luck
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timeisshort
replied on May 13th, 2009
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serviceu is right!
the above reply is correct, you need to know him, why was there a reason for divorce in the first time. The other issue is does it impact on your Christian out look on life. there are a lot of things you need to concider, take your time the pain is harder once your heart strings have been wrenched. The other thing is if you are both truely in love with each other that love will be patient & give each other time to make your choices right!

God bless!
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