Hi sweety8,
Try washing your hair in plain cold ice tea, set it soak for 10 to 15 minutes if possible. Rinse and dry. Do this daily for a few days. The acid in the tea will eliminate the order. For the shine, try using raw eggs and mayo as a conditioner, put it on for 10 minutes, rinse and dry...do this for a few days. If this doesn't work, see a dermatologist.
Good Luck,
Faded Rose