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Masturbation prior to married life affects later?
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Q: Daily Masturbation - effect on married life ?
asked by: Love2584 on May 22nd, 2009
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Hi,

I do masturbation on a daily basis. I have been doing this for last 9-10 years. Now When its time for marriage i am afraid that it would affect my married life. Sometimes I feel it has reduced the size of my penis and the erection power.
However, sometimes I tried to stop this habbit but could not.

Please advice what to do?
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ioka
replied on May 22nd, 2009
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hello and welcome. im not a man but here to support an advise you. i can,t see where this would affect you in married life as you will know what excites you. we all have our ways to explore our sexual needs and masterbation is our curiosity of what turns us on.
we find when we do settle down into married life its easier to guide your partner on what you like and she will be the same with you.
its a natural part in us all so i wouldn,t worry. hope this puts your mind at rest.
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Mikolas
replied on May 23rd, 2009
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It'll affect your future marriage the more you dwell on this as a possible problem.

Otherwise, the only event that this would be a problem, is if your wife does not approve of the idea of you masturbating (some people are less secure and take that as a sign of you aren't attracted to them), or if your sexual life with her is affected. By your sexual life being affected, I meant in the event that you prefer masturbating over sex with your wife, or have done it so often that you do not have the drive to want to do it with her. That is when this would be a problem.

Otherwise, no sir, it does not have to be a problem. A wise woman knows that she isn't around 24/7 to help you with your sudden lustful moments and should understand that you may need to help yourself.

Good luck!
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furrytail
replied on May 23rd, 2009
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Masturbation is a healthy thing, put in perspective
Love2584,
Masturbation is a healthy part of all of our lives. We all do it and this is something that should not bother you. If you wife felt insecure about it and mentioned this to you, then you would need to talk it out with her. Masturbation should not be the one and only way for sexual relief, although far too many times this is the case, but should be an individual act done occasionally when the mood strikes.
You need to keep the perspective here.

Wendy
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timeisshort
replied on May 23rd, 2009
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It can affect your health!
Go study this through nutritional areas this & other forums are full of people like myself who want to only give you their side of belief.
Of coursei believe this could have had an effect on the condition of my health because of zinc depletion & the effect on my prostate, & the fact that i have a thyroid disfunction. even after i got married & gave myself to my wife continuously might have had some effect but i wasnt ejaculating as much as you say you are either. Then of course there is the moral debate that a lot of people who don't have any, would criticise some one who want's to put forward there argument. I think there was some one who mentioned a person who could not accept it as right was weak but i would assume that you would have to have more guts to abstain from the act than to give in to it. ultimately it is your choice & you need to decide from the correct info that you decide is right. ultimately if i had my chance to preserve my life it would be one thing i would try to abstain from in essence!
Godd Luck!
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jack6
replied on May 24th, 2009
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Hy love25
im married since more than 35 years and i can say you, that i have more handjobs done in this time than had sex with my wife.
the wifes have less sexdrive than we men, and so it gives many moments of trouble between man and wife. and aalways masturbation is a good way to normalice the sexsituation. to masturbate was very importand for our good time of our marriage! with less masturb. it would have given much more trouble between us - thats me experience and good advice for you for your marrige!
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ServiceU
replied on May 28th, 2009
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I will never stop masturbating!
i started at 14 and im 32, and i will do it to the day i die.
it relieves stress!
i m always stressed out!
it get rid of my minor headaches!
it excites my boyfriend!
so if you cant stop!
Good, neither can i.
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johnrich
replied on June 8th, 2009
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ServiceU, you sound like my kind of woman!
Having your mate watch as you masturbate certainly adds spice to one's sexual smorgasbord.
Carry on!
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