My mother got a divorce when i was only 9 months old. My dad didn't want anything to do with me until i was 2 years old. He finally started coming to see me when i was 3. Well now im 21 and me and my step sister got in a huge arguement and my step mom now hates me. I havent seen my dad in over 5 months. About once a month he'll txt me but hes never told me he loved me or hugged me or anything. He's never acted like a father. He just asks like a friend. Recently he told me he loved me for the very first time. I used to cry ever night because my mom always tells me she loves me but my dad never did. Then when he finally told me i thought it would be different i thought we would be closer but we're not. It really hurts me because i love him so much and he just asks like we're friends. He wont even drive 45 mins to see me. My boyfriend hates it and says hes an fool and hes not a father. It really upsets me when he says that because i love my father very much. I just dont know what to do.