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Q: Cutting and feeling unloved
asked by: lostatsea on April 13th, 2009
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I've been cutting for a while now and it does help calm my emotions so that I can make it throught the remainder of the day/week/whatever. But there has to be something else. I don't know what to do. Friends are nonexistant, feeling love is something you only find in fairytales. Sometimes I am filled with extremely strong, painful emotions so I cut to help calm me and make my pain more understandable and easier to deal with. Sometimes I will feel nothing and cut to bring myself back into reality. There has to be life beyond this. There has to be something to do besides cut. I've read that you should tell someone that you cut, but I one of the reasons I started cutting is because I'm alone and unloved in the world. The one person that I could consider a friend has pushed me away. It broke my heart. I thought things couldn't get worse but they did. I don't have anyone to talk to, anyone to listen, any one at all. I just don't know what to do besides cut.
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michianderson
replied on April 13th, 2009
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I think the first thing you have to figure out is why you cut. What happened to you that makes you feel the need to release the pain? There are hotlines you can find online that will help you with this. It is anonymous..
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sherox
replied on May 12th, 2009
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cutting only hides the pain for a short while until you cut again. I agree you need to identify why...although you kind of told us why, you also told someone which is what you thought would help but did it really? The only real problem with the cutting is it is only hurting the person who is already hurting. So how do you start the healing? I need to say at this point I am NOT a cutter, I stumbled on to this site while trying to heal a pain in my heart. My problem is finding the someone to really trust. I am usually the supporter, the one who helps others through but who do I trust to help me? I'm learning that person is also me. I have to realize that it is okay to feel alone with myself and that I can be the friend that I need to get through. Once i stop looking for others to fix it for my I find that it really is something I have to fix for myself. I hope this helps...I know it is long but I almost needed it for me to solve my own problem which is how i wandered on to this site in the 1st place. i hope you find another way, maybe you could help others with a similar problem and build your friend base from there.
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