I have a 6 month old baby and i am currently living with my GF. Lately she has become extremly negative and lazy with the baby. I end up takeing care of him when ever i am home non stop. It is a battle for me to get a rest when i get home. She negative about everything i do and about her self. I understand it is probably the postpartum Depression but shes gone really bad. She is constantly sleeping and moaping around the house. While i amd juggleing School/ Work/ And a baby. I am tried and when i wat to rest she wont let me. And if i do finaly get a break its like i have to battle her to get it and then 10 min later shes giving him back to me. Am i being Selfish? I have analyzed the situation hundreds of times and i dont think i am being selfish. But u never know.
To my main point i dont really want to be around this anymore and i am only really sticking around cause of my child. I just want him to be happy and live a great life. I do not feel she is a fit mother, she hast worked for 2 years and evry job she gets she gets fired from with in a month or two. Its sad. I hav e been providing and paying her depts for 3 years now. I am sick of it. I have asked her to get a job hundreds of times and i even payed $400 for her to go to phabotemy school and she has had it for a month now and failed 3 interviews. She never cleans the house she always expects me to do it and takes all the credit for all the hard work i do for the baby and our home.
I have a hard time trusting her alone with the baby because i know for afact 90% of the time i am awasy she lays the b baby down and forces him to sleep most of the time. She constantly texts me telling me to come home because she is having a hard time and this is usualy after only being gone for an hour or so. this happens everyday. I love my child and love to play with him when ever i am around i love to read to him take him on walks and more. She on the other hand only wants me to do all of this and neever wants to deal with him when he is cring and screaming.
When i try to talk to her about this she flips it around and makes me feel bad about bringing it up and she makes me out to be some sort of bad guy. I am not abad guy i am a excelent fater and i love it every minute.
of of this info what do you beleave my chances are of wining custody of my child. I am striving to stay atround for the childs sake. but it gets harder and harder every day. Or am i jsut being selfish? I would realy appreciate some feed back. I am confused wheather i am in the right or wrog here.