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Ok, well i went down on my gf...she was enjoying it but then she started laughing the she turned away...i asked y r u laughing an she said because i was about to cry...i was confused...but she also said she really enjoyed it and wants me to do it everyday...but i dont no y she was about to cry...can anyone please help me with this

p.s this happened twice last yr with an ex gf and she really started crying...and she didnt no y either
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replied October 31st, 2008
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shes probably very emotional. i get emotional sometimes cause im so in love with my guy and i feel that connection
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replied October 31st, 2008
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t21.

there are so many emotions that women feel when they make love. there's no telling why she cried (or laughed for that matter). it's just about what was in her heart at that moment.

try not to analyze it too much, just accept that women are different from men and very emotional at times.

it's very rare for me to do something like cry when i make love (not to say that it hasn't happened), but it is rare. i'm much more likely to laugh, but that's just me.

enjoy your lady and develop an appreciation for all of her very special qualities including some of those qualities that maybe you or she don't understand. women are just women sometimes and there's no explaining it.

there is one main difference between women and men though, that's worthy of noting. women are brought up that they can be free emotionally, men are brought up to be strong and more "controlled". for this reason, women are not as bent out of shape about doing something like showing what men would consider an extreme emotion. it's ok. it doesn't necessarily "mean" anything, it was just that little "batch" of emotion she was feeling at the moment and by the grace of God, she felt free enough to express it. that freedom is a wonderful thing, so don't try to squelch it ok? you don't have to encourage it (particularly if it freaks you out)but don't put any guilt on her or make her feel like she shouldn't have emotion one way or another.

maybe you can learn something from her in the sense that you should feel free to express how you feel at any given moment as well.

jasmine
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replied November 23rd, 2008
I've cried a few times during an orgasm or just after one, it's like a huge release of tension.
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replied November 24th, 2008
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Re: Crying during an orgasm ???
She probably cried because it felt so good...This happens to women when they really have a wonderful orgasm...Possibly one where they have let themselves loose...It is both frightening and magic......

IMO a woman is constantly searching as well as finding new parts of her sexual self...As she ages and if she is madly in love, she gives....She gives this new part of herself...She not only opens her mind, but her soul...It is quite a trip....Like your girlfriend, I too, would like it everyday....

On the medical side of sexual mating, I would say that you found her swollen G-spot....The thrill of this special place being touched and licked during passion can bring the word "lust" alive and put you on a direct line with the stars......And to make it better, you don't want to return home....

You, my young man, are a very good lover.....Kudos to you....

Take care,
CA
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replied November 24th, 2008
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Re: Crying during an orgasm ???
candyann wrote:
She probably cried because it felt so good...This happens to women when they really have a wonderful orgasm...Possibly one where they have let themselves loose...It is both frightening and magic......

IMO a woman is constantly searching as well as finding new parts of her sexual self...As she ages and if she is madly in love, she gives....She gives this new part of herself...She not only opens her mind, but her soul...It is quite a trip....Like your girlfriend, I too, would like it everyday....

On the medical side of sexual mating, I would say that you found her swollen G-spot....The thrill of this special place being touched and licked during passion can bring the word "lust" alive and put you on a direct line with the stars......And to make it better, you don't want to return home....

You, my young man, are a very good lover.....Kudos to you....

Take care,
CA


couldn't have said it better if i tried (and i did). t21, props to you!
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replied April 25th, 2009
A mans point of view!!
I am a 49 year old male with what I believe to be a very unique & mind blowing condition.
Short back ground, Have been sexually active since an early age (13) with the opposite sex. Although I have not had a very large number of lovers/partners ( approx 12-14 ) I have always been very sexually active either with a partner or with my self and have had many orgasms ranging from mild erotic to mind blowing !!

Fast forward 10`s of thousands of orgasms to now, I have recently begun a new relationship with some one I have known for 20 yrs plus ,we were friends ,I was invited to her wedding, I�ve done numerous construction related jobs in her home & recently we connected in a way far greater than I/we have ever experienced . Without going into detail of how truly connected we seem to be ,we have sexual relations for approx 3 months , during which time I have been hesitant to cum inside of her due to her concerns of pregnancy (although I had a V 13 years ago ) and my respect for her concerns (FYI we have both had a battery of clear std tests )

Two weeks ago we were making love , she had a few orgasms & I was ready to have mine when she said I want you to cum inside of me ! we talked about it & I was pleased not to have to pull out so I could feel the complete nonstop fulfillment of the orgasm .As I am starting to climax ,a new feeling started to approach ,something I have never experienced before ? I started to feel the surge of something new starting at the center of my body & flooding my body with new sensations I�ve never experienced ,the orgasm started ,then those sensations were held in suspension as if It was on pause, but I could still feel everything, then as I continue to progress in the orgasm the sensations grow & grow & grow to something I can not describe in words ! Then as I am about to release my cum the feeling grows to such a height but still not released then it starts to happen!!!!! I feel it building up in my sinuses then in my throat then in my eyes as well as my whole body,mind & soul & I`m not sure whats happening as I start to feel uncontrollable ,cant hold it back ,downright flood of tears & crying as though I have seen the birth of my first child or I have just seen the face of God!!!!!

This happened 2 weeks ago & then yesterday but yesterdays was far more intense that two weeks ago! Please know that this has only happened the two times I have cumed inside her . All other times were more powerful than any orgasm in the past, be it through oral sex or vaginal sex with pull out, then masturbation.
I am to say the least blown away by this1

Any input would be great! I am feeling as though I should call Opra or Dr Phill & tell them .
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replied May 10th, 2009
Wow cowboy35263!! I actually got goosebumps reading that!! Sounds like you've finally found "The One" Smile
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replied December 19th, 2009
Thank you for sharing your stories, but as lovely as it sounds to suggest it has something to do with the bond you have with your partner, it is actually not related as much as you think.

Crying or laughing during climax is basically, part of the stages of arousal for some people at some point in their sexual lives. It is your body's way of releasing all that tension that has built up during the initial phases of desire and further on through stimulation. It is purely a connection of the physiological and the emotional being.

Needless to say, it may not have come about if your partner had not felt he/she was in a loving and safe environment - but beyond that, it's just science.
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replied August 19th, 2010
My boyfriend and I have been arguing quite a bit lately. We did have sex last nite,when I had my orgasm I had this overwhelming feeling in my chest of my love for him,and before I knew it there were tears running down my face. I felt like all my emotions came out through my orgasm,never had that happen before. It made me feel like it happened cause we are so connected to each other.
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replied February 3rd, 2011
Its completely normal for girls to cry during an orgasm. This is because all our emotions go crazy and we just cry.
Everytime. I mean everytime, my boyfriend gives me an orgasm i cry. Hes so use to it now, it's normal to him.
So don't worry about it. It happeneds to most girls.
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replied February 5th, 2011
i actually wrote a post about this too.. when i orgasm i get tears in my eyes. i don't feel particularly 'emotional' i mean it feels good of course but like.. my mood doesnt feel like crying? lol i just get tears in my eyes i can't control it.
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replied March 5th, 2011
well, dunno bout physical contact...cus I was on the phone with my fiance' last night and we got a little frisky Smile, I used my toy and well we had fun. I orgasmed maybe 5 times....6th time I got this overwhelming feeling and I cried out loud and had to actually stop myself from letting go all the way...never felt that before and it kind of bothers me.

It would be nice to know im not a freak and that this is completely normal..
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replied March 7th, 2011
Sexual experiences are or at least should be emotional experiences. That's one of the nicer aspects of sex. On that theme everybody reacts differently the emotion is intense that's why people keep doing it and keeping human race going.

That's why crying as not abnormal at all especially for women for whom the experience is emotional for the most part.

From this mans point of view that's part of what makes interacting with women so enjoyable.
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replied September 11th, 2011
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i have not been with my other half for very long and after alot of times of fighting and arguing we began to have sex again as normal, one night my sex drive was extreamly high and from start to finish i had a lump in my throat and couldnt feel my legs and i felt my face egin to burn it was magic its just helpful to know that this is normal for women.
but is it as common in 16 year olds as well as fully grown women ??
heather x
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replied March 2nd, 2012
Crying during an orgasm.
After reading all of these posts, I'm feel much more comforted. Last night, my fiancee and I had, what I like to think, the best sex we've ever had. Although, to be honest, he and I say that almost everytime we have sex (which is often..). Towards the end of our love making session, I began to feel an orgasm, starting at the tips of my toes, and growing more intense with every thurst, to the point where, I could not with hold my cries of ecstacy. I began to moan, those moans turned into cries, and before I knew it I was FULL BLOWN CRYING. SOBS! My fiancee was horrified but knowing that I would ask him to stop if I was in pain, he kept going. Needless to say, it was the best orgasm I've EVER had, and the best he's ever had. (I was contracting like crazy!)
Afterwards, we discussed the newest evolution our sexapades have unveiled. I was nervous and confused with the tears.

After reading all of the above posts, I'm feeling much better about the situation. I have been EXTREMELY stressed out. And yesterday, was the most stressful day I've had in weeks. The release of my stress through my orgasm- is what I credit the tears to. That or I was just soo happy and inlove with my fiancee and his glorious love making abilities.

Ahhh, I'm still relishing in the glow of last nights love!
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replied March 6th, 2012
There can just be a ton of emotions that she is feeling. It is not at all a bad thing for her to cry during an orgasm. I have cried when I have orgasmed before because it causes me to feel so emotionally close to my boyfriend. They are not tears of sadness but of bliss and enjoyment.
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replied May 22nd, 2012
wow everything im reading is great...i feel i have to share...i came here looking for an answer...i have just had sex with my husband of four years...granted i am four months pregnant and very hormonal but what just happened was incredible...we were making love and as i started to climax it hit me so hard i started yelling not moaning with this intense pleasure..then i started laughing and then crying and i mean balling my eyes out...that lasted for about ten seconds and then i started laughing again...then i just told my very freaked out husband to keep going ....I have never had an orgasm like that before and it amazed and scared me at the same time... I am glad to know it is normal and i cant wait to see if i can do it again... thanks for the advice guys
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replied June 18th, 2012
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yes i have read all of these post. i have to say i am very releaved to read that many other women have the same issue as me. at first i was imbarassed because i don't know what is going on. it has only happened twice in 8 years. lately i have been very depressed. low self esteem issues. sexually frustrated feeling like i can't please my husband because of my weight. and at the same time have been feeling very.. well... horney. more than usual. i am hitting my thirties and many its more sex drive than ever. well tonight i just had to have it and also felt a very overly in love with my husband. while me doing all the work foreplay and then me on top backwards. i just let loose. and then at the end just started crying. but it felt so good. i don't like when it happens. it kinda makes me depressed all over again but it still felt so good. i am super emotional right now really an emotional wreck. the other day i cried all day for nothing. smh
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replied September 28th, 2012
As im reading these i cant help but think my friend doesnt feel the same way as me...we recently had sex and as i was getting ready to have a orgasm i started crying and my legs were shaken quite a bit and it kinda freaked me out cause that was the first time it happened and i think it kinda freaked him out to because i havent heard from him since then other then a message saying that was bad...it really was not good...im confused...should i feel bad about it or did i just fall for the wrong guy????
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replied February 1st, 2014
He was the wrong guy. If someone ever, EVER, makes you feel bad about something like this, then tell them to get lost. He's an immature piece of junk that has the mindset of a thirty year old virgin with a porn addiction. He's a creep.

Stuff happens during sex (someone could cry, someone could fart, or even say 'no more, we need to stop', and if he wasn't smart enough to know it and accept it, he needs to be laughed at and chucked in a trashcan.
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