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Q: Crying during an orgasm ???
asked by: t21 on October 31st, 2008
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Ok, well i went down on my gf...she was enjoying it but then she started laughing the she turned away...i asked y r u laughing an she said because i was about to cry...i was confused...but she also said she really enjoyed it and wants me to do it everyday...but i dont no y she was about to cry...can anyone please help me with this

p.s this happened twice last yr with an ex gf and she really started crying...and she didnt no y either
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CoolGlassofH2O
replied on October 31st, 2008
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shes probably very emotional. i get emotional sometimes cause im so in love with my guy and i feel that connection
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Jazzy77
replied on October 31st, 2008
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t21.

there are so many emotions that women feel when they make love. there's no telling why she cried (or laughed for that matter). it's just about what was in her heart at that moment.

try not to analyze it too much, just accept that women are different from men and very emotional at times.

it's very rare for me to do something like cry when i make love (not to say that it hasn't happened), but it is rare. i'm much more likely to laugh, but that's just me.

enjoy your lady and develop an appreciation for all of her very special qualities including some of those qualities that maybe you or she don't understand. women are just women sometimes and there's no explaining it.

there is one main difference between women and men though, that's worthy of noting. women are brought up that they can be free emotionally, men are brought up to be strong and more "controlled". for this reason, women are not as bent out of shape about doing something like showing what men would consider an extreme emotion. it's ok. it doesn't necessarily "mean" anything, it was just that little "batch" of emotion she was feeling at the moment and by the grace of God, she felt free enough to express it. that freedom is a wonderful thing, so don't try to squelch it ok? you don't have to encourage it (particularly if it freaks you out)but don't put any guilt on her or make her feel like she shouldn't have emotion one way or another.

maybe you can learn something from her in the sense that you should feel free to express how you feel at any given moment as well.

jasmine
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mummy77
replied on November 23rd, 2008
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I've cried a few times during an orgasm or just after one, it's like a huge release of tension.
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JavaMissus
replied on November 24th, 2008
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Re: Crying during an orgasm ???
She probably cried because it felt so good...This happens to women when they really have a wonderful orgasm...Possibly one where they have let themselves loose...It is both frightening and magic......

IMO a woman is constantly searching as well as finding new parts of her sexual self...As she ages and if she is madly in love, she gives....She gives this new part of herself...She not only opens her mind, but her soul...It is quite a trip....Like your girlfriend, I too, would like it everyday....

On the medical side of sexual mating, I would say that you found her swollen G-spot....The thrill of this special place being touched and licked during passion can bring the word "lust" alive and put you on a direct line with the stars......And to make it better, you don't want to return home....

You, my young man, are a very good lover.....Kudos to you....

Take care,
CA
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Jazzy77
replied on November 24th, 2008
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Re: Crying during an orgasm ???
candyann wrote:
She probably cried because it felt so good...This happens to women when they really have a wonderful orgasm...Possibly one where they have let themselves loose...It is both frightening and magic......

IMO a woman is constantly searching as well as finding new parts of her sexual self...As she ages and if she is madly in love, she gives....She gives this new part of herself...She not only opens her mind, but her soul...It is quite a trip....Like your girlfriend, I too, would like it everyday....

On the medical side of sexual mating, I would say that you found her swollen G-spot....The thrill of this special place being touched and licked during passion can bring the word "lust" alive and put you on a direct line with the stars......And to make it better, you don't want to return home....

You, my young man, are a very good lover.....Kudos to you....

Take care,
CA


couldn't have said it better if i tried (and i did). t21, props to you!
jasmine
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cowboy35263
replied on April 25th, 2009
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A mans point of view!!
I am a 49 year old male with what I believe to be a very unique & mind blowing condition.
Short back ground, Have been sexually active since an early age (13) with the opposite sex. Although I have not had a very large number of lovers/partners ( approx 12-14 ) I have always been very sexually active either with a partner or with my self and have had many orgasms ranging from mild erotic to mind blowing !!

Fast forward 10`s of thousands of orgasms to now, I have recently begun a new relationship with some one I have known for 20 yrs plus ,we were friends ,I was invited to her wedding, I�ve done numerous construction related jobs in her home & recently we connected in a way far greater than I/we have ever experienced . Without going into detail of how truly connected we seem to be ,we have sexual relations for approx 3 months , during which time I have been hesitant to cum inside of her due to her concerns of pregnancy (although I had a V 13 years ago ) and my respect for her concerns (FYI we have both had a battery of clear std tests )

Two weeks ago we were making love , she had a few orgasms & I was ready to have mine when she said I want you to cum inside of me ! we talked about it & I was pleased not to have to pull out so I could feel the complete nonstop fulfillment of the orgasm .As I am starting to climax ,a new feeling started to approach ,something I have never experienced before ? I started to feel the surge of something new starting at the center of my body & flooding my body with new sensations I�ve never experienced ,the orgasm started ,then those sensations were held in suspension as if It was on pause, but I could still feel everything, then as I continue to progress in the orgasm the sensations grow & grow & grow to something I can not describe in words ! Then as I am about to release my cum the feeling grows to such a height but still not released then it starts to happen!!!!! I feel it building up in my sinuses then in my throat then in my eyes as well as my whole body,mind & soul & I`m not sure whats happening as I start to feel uncontrollable ,cant hold it back ,downright flood of tears & crying as though I have seen the birth of my first child or I have just seen the face of God!!!!!

This happened 2 weeks ago & then yesterday but yesterdays was far more intense that two weeks ago! Please know that this has only happened the two times I have cumed inside her . All other times were more powerful than any orgasm in the past, be it through oral sex or vaginal sex with pull out, then masturbation.
I am to say the least blown away by this1

Any input would be great! I am feeling as though I should call Opra or Dr Phill & tell them .
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mummy77
replied on May 10th, 2009
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Wow cowboy35263!! I actually got goosebumps reading that!! Sounds like you've finally found "The One" Smile
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