Ok so i lost my virginity today to my Girlfriend of 8 months. Im only 16 and i've experienced some weird problems. First off when my gf gives me head it feel somewhat good but never really enough to make me cum. The only times she has ever made me cum was by a blow job followed up by a hand job.

So today when we had sex I really had minimal pleasure, i had a trojan ultra ribbed condom and to be honest I only felt it when i first put it into her and when i was thrusting in and out it just didnt feel good, I could just barley feel it.

I think it might have to do with my masturbation habits. I masterbate about once maybe twice a day and when I masturbate I focus on this one part of the head of my penis and thats how i cum is from stimulating this one area.

I really dont know if this has anything to do with my problem. Me and my gf do alot of foreplay too it just doesnt do anything for me. Maybe she wasn't wet enough idk it just didnt feel like I thought it would and just wasn't even enjoyable considering I didnt even cum after 15 minutes of trying different positions.

Another thing i find weird is most kids my age get really excited and get an adrenaline rush type feeling when doing sexual stuff. I really just dont get this for some reason, even during sex I had my composure.

I dont know what the problem is.
Im planning on quitting masturbating and seeing if it will bring up my sexual sensetivity. Or maybe using a thinner condom. Any theories on what this sexual roadblock is for me?