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Q: conversation ideas

asked by: Acidplant on August 17th, 2008

New User

Ok, so im a male 19, sexually experienced, not to shy and very open

ive met a lass i REALLY REALLY like, shes 16 and very pretty

basically i just find it difficult to think of things to talk about with her

well not so much i dont know wot to say, but i dont want to say the wrong things as im really worried id say the wrong thing and she might not want to see me again.

i dont really know how she feels, shes agreed to meet me for a drink one night so maybe thats something?

please helppp me Very Happy

bare in mind how old she so dont want the conversation to *sophisticated* haha

thanks in advance Very Happy

Replies(7)

meg.mal

replied on August 17th, 2008

New User

haha...sounds like your trying to be who she wants you to be, not who u really are.

that's never a good thing.

illustriously fickle

replied on August 18th, 2008

Experienced User

Ask her questions about herself. People like talking about themselves. So instead of talking, start to listen.

greenr702

replied on September 26th, 2008

New User

is this legal to coach someone on how to talk to a lady that is a minor?!?!

get someone your own age guy...things will be simpler

rooted

replied on September 26th, 2008

Supporter

1. US law is not international law.

2. Let's be honest, teen on teen attraction isn't so new. Our ancestors were mackin on each other at the tender age of 13...and that was less than 400 years ago. A 3 year age gap isn't such a big deal.

Back on topic --- I think that conversation skills comes from experience. The more you experience, the more you'll have something to talk about.

soapbox

replied on October 7th, 2008

New User

Talk about other people. Just the random people walking down the street or in a mall or what ever. Make fun of them, push the limits. It's a guaranteed laugh with anyone.

Dannzibelle

replied on October 7th, 2008

Supporter

greenr702 wrote:

is this legal to coach someone on how to talk to a lady that is a minor?!?!

get someone your own age guy...things will be simpler

If he's from the uk the age of consent is 16

greenr702

replied on October 13th, 2008

New User

lmao...okay so the age of consent is 16...same for Las Vegas...but I guess the point of my post was telling him to find someone thats 19 or 20- it most likely wouldn't be as difficult to come up with something to say to her.

and thats my bad for not noticing he is from across the pond.

or hell...find you a 35 yr old woman...those are fun too- and she can teach you things...will also bring out a certain level of confidence in you- which will enable you to talk to women of all ages.

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