it could be HIV/AIDS or hepatitis ....why the secrecy and the word games???? It is not something to be ashamed of and it doesn't make you any less of a person if you do have hepatitis or AIDS or whatever..

i thought it might be but not sure.. I really dont know maybe she thinks i will judge him.. but i met him hes a nice guy i am worried she might catch something if she was to sleep with him but its not the first time a couple like that has happend.. I also worry shes putting her heart out there and she will get hurt but thats life.. I know it doesnt make you anyless of a person maybe she doesnt trust me as much as she says she does...

that could be....its hard to tell and trust is such an easy thing to loose and an easy thing to break....I don't know??? But its her life so if she chooses to keep it from you then there isn't much you can do...sorry..

I'm sure she will tell me when shes ready we are going next month to meet him so.. i will ask then if she doesnt tell me its putting myself at risk then

Sounds like a good plan...