I am in your exact shoes, and am trying to figure that out myself! When things get tough, job related, My emotions get the best of me. I end up reacting too quickly, Wanting a way out and then live with regret later! A lot of it with me is insecurity. It never seemed like much then, but as I get older I realize how IMPORTANT it is to be content with yourself; Never second guessing. The moment you put doubt in your head and think WAY too much, You over analyze; reading into things too deeply, and think the WORST. Panic sets in, and suddenly you're at a standstill, afraid to make your next move. I say to myself, thinking the worst will prepare me for the worst, and it's a crock of b/s, because when I'm done, I'm always worrying about something else. I think I just need to turn my mind off, Like that Jim Carey movie, "Spotless mind", So awesome would that be. lol.