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Q: Constant negative thoughts

asked by: SurvivalOfTheFittest on January 20th, 2009

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Hi guys,

At the moment I feel quiet depressed and frustrated. About 2 years ago I had sex with my girlfriend and it didn't last so long. After this I was teased quiet a bit by her former friends. This again happened with another girl (I'm not sure about the teasing). I've been on medication (for social anxiety) since March 08. At the moment I've got so many worries. I don't have a job (my anxiety is mainly the cause in my opinion). I'm always worried about the future whether I'll find a job, when this will exactly be, will I like the job, how long the job will last. Then it goes back to my sexual issues. This gives me no confidence at all making it hard to understand who I should be speaking to about it, how I'm going to get it cured etc. Can anybody please tell me whats wrong with me I've got so many f****** worries at the moment and I don't know what to do. All I have is constant negative thoughts and it is really affecting my self-esteem and confidence in the real world.

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Phocks

replied on February 23rd, 2009

Experienced User

Hey Champ.

How are you feeling?

Just starting with your sexual issues. You are suffering from Performance Anxiety. This is not an uncommon reaction when you have had premature ejaculation previously. The thing with us blokes is that we want to be the master of our domain. It is extremely important to us to be able to pleasure our woman so when we feek we cant it turns into a major anxiety problem.

But dont worry so much as there is plenty of help to overcome premature ejaculation. Look in your local area for someone that specialixses in the area and book in a consultation. I believe its a simple nasal delivery system.

With regards to the rest of your issues it seems that you may be a very anxious person in general.

You mention you are on medication....are you seeing a regular doctor???

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