me and my girlfriend is about to get married by next year but im confused on what to do... i have a work, she does have to.. we have a kid... we are renting a house... she's still supports her family its ok... but theres nothin left for me and the kid... so i had to do whatever i can to support her... so to make the long story short... i support myself, the baby, and her.. but she supports her family... so we cant save money.. so please help what to do...