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Q: confused - does he like me or not? please advice
asked by: Fru69 on October 4th, 2008
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Ok so i've known him for about three years now. We've dated twice now. The first time he flirted with my sister and friends and totally ignored me so i broke it off with him(2006). We met up again and became friends again, then we started flirting and went out this summer (2008). I became totally paranoid about him and other girls and it ruined the relationship, i felt he didn't love me so i stopped loving him and we broke it of neutral. A month later were the best of friends but he keeps acting different. We were flirting like crazy in town together. Then he came over to mine with our other best friends and we were on the trampoline and we started play fighting and he kept landing really close to me and holding me down really tightly. Unfortunatly i hurt my leg pretty badly during this play fighting and i can't currently walk. When i did it he carried me everywhere, placed me in chairs and said things like "I've got you sweetheart" and "Hold onto me baby". He came over today aswell. They all went on the trampoline and he came over near where i was standing near the trampoline and told me i could pull him off the tramp in a bar strangle so i did and he wrapped himself around me and said "your very cuddly" he snuggled right in and we stayed like that for ages. He then got kicked in the head and needed to go inside, since it was my house i helped him. He was having a drink and he asked me "do you want a hug" which is a strange question seen as he wanted the hug. I just don't know what to do, i want to go out with him again but i never know if he's doing what he's doing just because he wants to get in my pants because he doesn't do it all the time. He stands close to me alot, and acts like a complete gentleman around me but after two failed attempts is it even worth it? I could really do with some advice from somebody who doesn't know me.
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zigemyster
replied on October 4th, 2008
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He doesn't seem like he is serious. If I were you, I would just keep it as friends with him and start dating others. If he is serious about you he will let you know in time.

~Zig
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petery2k562
replied on October 9th, 2008
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I say go for it, he seems like a nice person who has finally gotten his act together but as soon as you see red flags going up, get out fast.

Good Luck

Peter
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