You need to keep you mind away for whatever happened, and get into female company, do no have more realtionship with guys, you need to stop doing that, get involve with a girl and if is possible get into a sexual relationship with her.

Your not gay, I wouldnt rush to get into a female male relatonship but stop having sexual experiences with other males, also move at your own pace and be who yoou wanna be

The same thing happened to me as a child. I have the same gender crisis...I havent been with a man, but I do understand the feelings...I wish I had an answer for you, but I'm still looking for one myself.

I'm backwards on this, I am predominatly attracted to females but with men it is more of a lust thing but I can be more open with females.

Seriously the best thing you could do is seek counselling, I know some of us have "pride issues" but no one can help you unless you choose to help yourself. Another option would be to read up on gender roles or sexuality books.

What happens sometimes is we close our minds, its a whole mind over matter thing. I would say seek a woman who is open to a sex based thing first, see if it does anything, if not then maybe you are bi or possibly gay.

I'm gender neutral, I portay both charactheristics of a male and female but I am not confused, I just can't stand being a female but I don't want to be a male either. the best thing you could do is educate yourself as well or look for online groups.

I think if the right woman was around, if she touched you, you would get an erection but she would also have to be patient and you would need to free your mind.

Anyway, good luck in your decision~! I know its hard to picture ourselves with the other sex but I also think you need to expierence with both to figure out where you stand. you won't learn from fretting over it.

I think we are all sexual animals, i like women
and I have a fiance and a baby,i dont see myself gay or bi, but sometimes I enjoy to let a guy to caress me, guy knows what another guy likes, usually is a very fast encounter, and mainly is a touching experience. I dont go too far with it either, and sometimes, just discharge my sexual energy, at times my girl can not make me release that energy because females have some problems every month, and I am always thinking in sex. Maybe thats the way every guy is. And masturbation do not helps sometimes. I guess my age is not helping either. I take cold showers in the morning to help me but I think I am thinking in sex 24/7
and sometimes I need to be close to somebody and it seems the sex doesnt matter. Maybe you are like that too.

I also suggest counseling. I too had a warped sense of self and sexuality from being molested. I never was able to enjoy sex. 6 months of intense therapy has really helped me. Im so much happier. Its really hard to get over the shame and guilt but you can and you will.

Whatever happens dont blame yourself...dont feel bad about your sexual experiences with men...thats all they were was experiments. You are still learning what you like. Dont waste your life blaming and feeling bad.

Thats what I did,,,,you are on the right track