Not all women have the classical orgasm. The idea is to enjoy. If you do, it is fine. There is no need to stress yourself out trying to achieve what someone else has and in the process losing all the pleasure you are receiving. This also does not mean that you are abnormal. Every woman enjoys sex in her own way. Many women do not get the typical orgasm yet have a satisfying sexual life. So relax!
What you probably mean is that you never had an orgasm. This could be achieved by proper stimulation of clitoris, G-spot in vagina, increase the foreplay, talk with your partner and discuss how you get stimulated, watch movies that stimulate you, create an environment around you that stimulates you. Sometimes the foreplay is not adequate for the female to be aroused as the arousal time of the two partners is different.
If all this does not help, consult your gynecologist. Hope this helps. Take care!
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