When my boyfriend and I first started having sex I wasn't on any form of birth control so we always used condoms...but...I am extremely paranoid about getting pregnant and would always worry every single month..not to mention my periods were VERY irregular...counted one month after mentioning it to my mom and 28 days later(a normal cycle) I still didn't have my period, and yes my boyfriend and I had had sex, so as you can imagine I was flipping out...well ten days later I got my period and decided that was the last straw..I was sick of having that much anxiety...ANYWAY..went on birth control and have been on it for about a year..my boyfriend and I have not been using condoms since then since i'm on birth control..I have suggested using them so it would ease my mind even more but he says he hates the condoms and really cant feel much of anything(I'm only his 2nd partner and his gf before that and him ALWAYS used a condom) is it true that a guy cant feel much of anything or has he just gotten too spoiled with using nothing....also I'm thinking that since we aren't using the condoms anymore maybe a spermacide would help ease my mind more? I'm just afraid of getting a uti or irritation