iam confused and need help. me and my boyfiend and sex for a couple of minutes or seconds. And the condom breaks and he does fill it or not and he cums in side. and when he pulls out the and he realizes that it breaks and tell me he had came 2. he tell me to tell my mom but i never did so i lied 2 him and tolled him i tolled her. so iam trying to find out am i just still scared or what. is there a chance that i could be pegenet or what. i was going to take a pegenceny test and see what happens. but am i right 2 do this. plzzzz help i need major help. lost and dont know what 2 do. plzz give me some answers. some one give me some major advice.
you should get on birth control pills so you dont have to go through this again.
you could wait until your period comes on next month. you cant take the pregnancy test until you miss your period the next month.
first off, are you sure your boyfriend put the condom on right. i know condoms can break. i was with my ex for 5 years and we always used condoms and it never tore.
make sure he pinched the tip of it taking all the air out of it. some condom boxes (even the 3 in a box) has pictures and a description on how to put it on.
second, you can go to the doctor, but it has be after you missed your period, or you will be wasting your time.
birth control pills are very small, if you put it in your mouth and drink water it will slide down with no problem.
my question to you is what if you are pregnant what will you do? if your answer is you dont know, then you should use birth control.
theres more options than just pillsfor bith control too, theres patches, rings and even little matchstick sized things they can put in your arm and leave for 3 years....go to planned parenthood and talk to someone there those people are really helpful and they're there for just such problems.
thanks for the advice. but i might have the baby if i am and put it up for adoption or keep it if i can. my boyfriend says i should get a abortion. and i dont think i should i. dont want to hert the baby. what do u think.
How old are you and your boyfriend? My guess is too young to be having sex in the first place. You need to get educated and find birth control before you have another scare. Or better yet, if you are too young, DON'T have sex until you are ready to take on the responsibilities that go with it. Babies go with sex, sometimes even when protection is used, and it's a shame that for a few heated moments, you might all have to pay the price for the rest of your lives.
As far as I know most of the time for a woman to get pregnant not being on bpills, takes couple of times, months or even years to have unprotected sex, very little chance to get pregnant for 1 time especially for young woman have no kids. But the best advise protect yourself and make sure he doesn't pinch condoms with purpose, cause that happened with me and my husband, he wanted me to get pregnant<<<abusive, right...
Put on two condoms, stay safe a lots of STD's out there which not even noticeable till you get it bad, it might show even in couple of years. GO to GYN doctor to check yourself and your men!!!
Serviceu is right, u only need 1 time 2 get pregnant. I got pregnant with my 2nd child on 1st month of stopping birth control.
Lost 14 my advice is 2 w8 til your period is due and then do a test. If it is negative then you need to think about using other methods of birth control as well as condoms to prevent this stress again. If you are pregnant then only you can decided what to do with the baby. Follow your instincts coz at the end of the day it is your decision, not any1 else's. Good luck!
I would wait until your supposed to have your next period and then take a test...How old are you? If its positive you should consider what is best for you and your baby, and tell your mom right way.. If you dont thinking keeping it is an option, there is always adoption.. I know plenty of people who are financially stable and are more than willing to give babies a home..but its up to you.. If its not positive i would get on some form of birth control, you cant always trust the person your with to be prepared or to put on the condom the right way.. If you dont feel comfortable taking the pills or if you not sure you would be able to take them at the same time everyday, i would speak to a dr about getting on the depo shot.. You get one shot every 3 months.. If you have any ?s you can pm me.. Hope everything turns out alright.. Let me know if you get your period..