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Q: concerns for fingering
asked by: drrrr on January 9th, 2009
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as it says ppl. I am just very concerned about contracting hiv since there has been a time where I once fingered a girl and sucked her breasts without knowing if she was hiv positive or not.in addition to that, she also gave me oral sex without a condom. the truth is, I did not at any time have sex with her and I am just very concerned about the matter.I just recently started out into some business ventures and is also expecting a son from my faithful girlfriend, which has had me stressed out at times and anxious at another. It has been approx two years since Ihave had this involvement and I am only now having symptoms. (ever since awaiting hiv results) I just need some peace of mind on the matter and I am quite sure that there are many professionals/ well educated ppl here that may be able to help me . please tell me that I have not infected my girlfriend and that my baby will be born free of std's lol
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Muthoni
replied on January 21st, 2009
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Drrr
Fluid: vaginal fluids. Activity: sucking breast and fingering.

Was there a way into YOUR bloodstream? Seemingly, there is no infection there.

Fluid: precum, semen, saliva. Activity: oral sex. She's at risk here not you. The person receiving can just relax. The person performing, they are the ones coming into contact with the fluids. Saliva does not have enough HIV to cause infection. So, no risk there for you young man. Read more on oral sex and HIV/AIDS to understand better.

Enjoy your business ventures and anticipate a healthy son mbae your faithful wife. Go ahead and be faithful.

If you are still worried, go for a test.

Your wife must have taken some tests at the hospital (prenatal) for baby and seemingly, they didn't have any concerns for her. They have no concerns about your son either. Me I say you are clear.

Hope you have learned your lesson and if you are still worried, get the test Man.

Deal with the guilt and let it go. Easier said than done.

I recommend a counselor. Very Happy

sincerely
Muthoni (Mson)

PS: I have been thinking thinking of how to answer you all this time. I didn't ignore you.
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