Fluid: vaginal fluids. Activity: sucking breast and fingering.
Was there a way into YOUR bloodstream? Seemingly, there is no infection there.
Fluid: precum, semen, saliva. Activity: oral sex. She's at risk here not you. The person receiving can just relax. The person performing, they are the ones coming into contact with the fluids. Saliva does not have enough HIV to cause infection. So, no risk there for you young man. Read more on oral sex and HIV/AIDS to understand better.
Enjoy your business ventures and anticipate a healthy son mbae your faithful wife. Go ahead and be faithful.
If you are still worried, go for a test.
Your wife must have taken some tests at the hospital (prenatal) for baby and seemingly, they didn't have any concerns for her. They have no concerns about your son either. Me I say you are clear.
Hope you have learned your lesson and if you are still worried, get the test Man.
Deal with the guilt and let it go. Easier said than done.
I recommend a counselor.
sincerely
Muthoni (Mson)
PS: I have been thinking

of how to answer you all this time. I didn't ignore you.