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Q: Conception ?
asked by: ChinadollZz on July 3rd, 2009
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Please Help...I wanted to know when I conceived...I had unprotected sex with two different people...my current boyfriend and ex...The first day of my last period was November 19th 2008...I had sex with my ex on November 21,22,23,24...then had sex with my current boyfriend on Thanksgiving November 27th...I really cant remember that clearly but I think I went back and had sex with the ex on the 28th and 29th of November...The last day I had sex with the ex was on the 29th...and the second time I had sex with my current boyfriend was Dec. 5...I know it's confusing...but I really need to know who the father of my child is before I'm due in August...

Recap of Dates...
First Day of Last Period: 11/19/08
Sex with Ex: November 21,22,23,24,28?,and 29?.
Sex with Current Boyfriend: November 27...December 5
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Cryssy1980
replied on July 3rd, 2009
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According to the dates, most likely your ex will be the father of your unborn child. However, to be sure...a dna test will prove the correct answer. I hope everything works out for you.
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ChinadollZz
replied on July 3rd, 2009
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Thank you so much...Yea i really need to find out...Thanks again
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veggiegurl
replied on July 5th, 2009
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well actually your peak ovulation time would be 14 days from the start of your last period, so novermber 19 plus 14 days puts you at december 4th or 5th to be able to conceive.

you had sex too early in your cycle with your ex in order for it to be him- you wouldn't have been ovulating.

but you had sex with your current boyfriend, right in the middle of your cycle when you are most likely to become pregnant

well sorry cryssy1980 to contradict you- but according to the dates the current boyfriend is most likely the father.
good luck!!
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ChinadollZz
replied on July 5th, 2009
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Pregnancy Calendar...When did I Concieve?
Thank you for your Help Veggiegirl… but what I forgot to put in my post that my period is based on a 25 day cycle...and that's what is throwing me off...I did conceiving calculator after calculator and each one is telling me different things... Does that affect the time of ovulation...Also I am pretty sure I had sex with the ex on the 28 or 29...It's sad but I can't remember which day...if u have time to respond can you please...Thanks...*~ChinaDollZz~*
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princess02044
replied on July 6th, 2009
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I plugged your information into an ovulation calculator using the 25 day cycle and your date of last period and it said:
"Based on your answers, you're likely to be most fertile from Wednesday, November 19, 2008 to Monday, November 24, 2008. If you were to get pregnant during that time, your due date would be Saturday, August 15, 2009. "

Most likely your ex is the father. I would pick a calculator that can guarantee that you put in 25 day cycle, otherwise it will assume 28 which could be giving you the mixed dates. The site I got the information from is one of my favorites and I use it constantly. Google ovulation calculator and it is I believe the first option from babycenter. However these are all estimates and you can ovulate a day earlier or later, the only way to be 100% sure is a DNA test. Good luck!
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veggiegurl
replied on July 6th, 2009
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hmmm princess, did you plug in the right dates?? i think you did something wrong- cause its nearly impossible to become pregnant while on your period... and the date for her last period was november 19th... so her peak fertility would not be the 19th like you said...

i plugged in the dates to the exact same ovulation calculator on baby center and heres what i got it:

Based on your answers, you're likely to be most fertile from Thursday, November 27, 2008 to Tuesday, December 2, 2008. If you were to get pregnant during that time, your due date would be Sunday, August 23, 2009.

and im still saying the current boyfriend is most likely the father- you had sex with him on the 27th and you arent sure if you had sex with your ex on the 28th and 29th
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veggiegurl
replied on July 6th, 2009
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and here's the results from another one---
November 25-27 is your highest fertility times. November 28-30 is the end of your significant fertility.

and heres another:

November 19, 2008You told us this was the 1st day of your last period
November 25, 2008This is the very beginning of your fertile period. Although your egg has not yet been released, it is possible that sperm could survive until your egg is released.
November 26, 2008It is now 2 days before ovulation; it is likely that you could conceive on this date.
November 27, 2008It is 1 day before ovulation. You are very fertile on this date.
November 28, 2008Ovulation. Based on the 1st day of your last period, this is the date that your egg is released. You are most fertile on this date.
November 29, 2008On the day after ovulation, conception is still very possible.
November 30, 20082 days after ovulation, your fertility is decreasing. The egg survives for about 24 hours, and, if not fertilized, it will disintegrate.
December 5, 2008If your egg was successfully fertilized, this is the approximate date when it implants itself in the uterus.
December 6, 2008A blood pregnancy test may be accurate now from this date forward.
December 8, 2008Some early pregnancy home tests may be accurate now – but be aware of the possibility of a false negative result.
December 12, 2008If you are NOT pregnant, this is the date you will probably get your next period. If you ARE pregnant, you can expect accurate results from a pregnancy test.
August 26, 2009This is your most likely due date if you became pregnant in this cycle.
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ChinadollZz
replied on July 6th, 2009
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Again...I want to Thank everyone for their help...I will do some more research myself...and I will try different ovulation calendars...but yes my period was on November 19th...so I couldn't have been fertile at that time...Thanks again Everyone...Things are becoming clearer...*~ChinaDollZz
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