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Q: Conception date problems
asked by: MichelleMag on July 9th, 2008
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I'm a little confused about my conception date. For the first time I made a mistake and slept with two different men in one month. One was my ex husband and the other was a new guy that I thought was right for me, but ended up not being so. I had unprotected sex with my ex husband on the 11th. Which I know for darn sure he "came" inside of me. I met the other guy on the 15th. We did NOT have sex on that day, But we had protected sex on the 16th. Unfortunatley I was confused and had sex with my ex husband, which was unprotected, the night of the 16th. Again, I had sex with the other guy on the 18th, which was also protected. My ultrasound on April 24th was 7 weeks and 2 days. My due date is December 8th. When I got a positive pregnancy test on the 4th of April, I was 4 weeks and 5 days. My LMP was 03/03/08. When I count back 7 weeks and 2 days from the 24th of April, It lands on the 11th. The only time the other guy and I had unprotected sex was on the 29th of March and my expected period was supposed to come on the 30th of March. I'm very nervous, because my ex husband and I are trying to work things out and he's extremely happy about the baby. I've never been in this situation before, and I'm kicking myself everyday because it seems that I can't figure this one out. I've been told that there is a possibility that women can get pregnant while using a condom if it's not used properly, but I know for sure this condom was used properly. I know for sure that if this isn't my ex husbands baby, we will never be able to work things out. That's just the way he is, and I completely understand. Could someone please help me? I'd greatly appreciate it. Thank you. =]
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Greenb1023
replied on July 9th, 2008
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If you had unprotected sex with your ex hubby and protected sex with your bf then it is probably your ex hubbys, but there is a slight chance it could be your bf's. The only way to really know is to get a paternity test.
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Dr. Nikola
replied on July 15th, 2008
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According to your data you probably ovulated and conceived on 16-th March. On that date you had sex with 2 men but one was protected and the other one was unprotected. Chances to conceive from the protected sex are 3% and from unprotected sex are 97%.
By the way ultrasound apparatus doesn't count the days but estimate the pregnancy age according to some fetal measurements. But even if you count back 7 weeks and 2 days from the 24th of April, It lands on 5-th March (not 11th March) which is very close to your LMP-date (3-rd March). This makes 18-th March also a risky date but the sex on that date was also protected.
I believe that your ex husband is the father of your unborn baby but if you want to be 100% sure you need to do a paternity test.
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LovingEveryMoment
replied on July 19th, 2008
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I looked it up. your conception date was March 17th according to your LMP

http://robynsnest.com/duedate.htm

Also, it's most likely you ex hubby's baby. you did not have unprotected sex with this other guy which makes the chance of it being his slim to none.
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