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conception and intercourse the same ?

So i found out im pregnant and my due date is august 13, 2012.. when i do my calculators it says i concieved on november 21, i never had sex around that day... I did have sex on november 2, 6, 12, without condoms and when i had sex on the 20 it was with a condom so does that mean i was already pregnant on the 20 ? Could i gotten pregnant on the 20 th even with a condom...
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replied December 17th, 2011
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When did you menstruate in October/November?

They are not the same:

The intercourse/sex that got you pregnant could happen from 5 days before ovulation, ovulation day and the day afterwards. So from about November 16 to November 22. (according to your doctor, you ovulated around November 21)

The accuracy of these calculations depends on how your due date was determined, and when. If it was with an ultrasound scan around late week 5, week 6. 7 or 8, it is very accurate (plus or minus 2 days).

It is possible to get pregnant despite the condom. Condoms have a small failure rate and typically about 5% of condom users will end up pregnant after using it for a year. Did you ask Mr Condom if something went wrong and if he checked the condom for leaks after the sex? Sperm might also have been present during foreplay.

Best of luck!
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replied March 28th, 2012
Im going through the same thing.....same due date...i wrote that 1st day of lmp was nov4,,but doc did avaginal ultrasound&it put my lmp starting on nov7...wierd...i had a slip up w my x on nov26...and I hope im not pregnant frm that day
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replied March 28th, 2012
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All it means is that your cycle would have been around 31 days long that cycle. (Actually a range between 29 to 33 days). The LMP they calculated with the transvaginal ultrasound is just a mechanical calculation, 14 days before the indicated ovulation/conception date. It does not mean you started menstruating then. If you had a perfect 28 day cycle with ovulation on day 14/15, it would have matched up perfectly.

The chances of your ex being the father will depend on other unprotected sex you had around the week before Nov 26 and week after that. More likely the week before that. It does however look like you conceived a few days before your encounter with your ex.

Best of luck!
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replied March 29th, 2012
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First Day of Last Menstrual Period: November 7, 2011
Probable Date of Ovulation: November 21, 2011
Possible Dates of Conception: November 17 to November 25, 2011
Due Date: August 13, 2012 (40 weeks)
from how it adds up you got pregnant from intercourse on the 20 but also, if your cycles are not the normal 28 day cycle then its a little different to calculate.
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replied April 7th, 2012
My lmp was 11/04/11 and i did a u/s on 12/10/2011 and the doctor had said i was 5 weeks and 4 days they gave me a due date on 8/07/12 and i also remember having sex on 18th as well without a condom.. but the second u/s gave me a second due date for the august 13
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replied April 7th, 2012
My lmp was 11/01/11 and i did a u/s on 12/10/2011 and the doctor had said i was 5 weeks and 4 days they gave me a due date on 8/07/12 and i also remember having sex on 18th as well..
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replied November 10th, 2012
hey there my name is mimi
ok so i had my period on oct.26-31 and the last day i stop bleeding me and my husband had sex that night and had sex nov.1-2 and those time he came inside me and it's been 1 week now and im feeling pregnant already.i've been tired,fatigue,light headache,light breast tingly sensation and increase of appetite.can it be possible that i'm pregnant or my mind is playing tricks on me?
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replied June 21st, 2013
Just wondering. Pretty nervous.
In November I did not have a period, because I had a miscarriage around the months of August and September. I basically got pregnant when I wasn't yet supposed to. In November I had sex with my ex one time around November 17th and the rest of the time with my boyfriend now. My due date is August 26th, 2013. Who do you think the father could be?
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replied July 9th, 2013
hi can you help me settle this bcos im now on my 15w of pregnancy.. and i have a good one. its just that i want to know how come if my due date is dec31 while it shows that my lmp was mar26 which is know that i had my lmp mar16..
i had sex with my bf from the month of march until 27 then i go overseas and got unprotected sex with 1 guy but he never cum on april 9... who is the father? which is i know is my bf... i just want to make this clear.. pleas please help
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