Dear Laria,
I too was on Clomid at 40, I lost the first pregnancy but the next cycle produced a beautiful baby boy. You probably would't class that as a second pregnancy I suppose, but I just wanted to write to you to not give up! Having said that, I still needed an injection to make me ovulate (with the clomid). I'm lucky I had a great Obstra who monitored me very closely. I saw our boy when he was just an egg! Why are you on metaformin too? I only took clomid. Dr prescribed a drug for diabetics ( I'm not diabetic, not history and no gestational diabetes). I didn't take it ( and didn't tell him, just improved my diet). So don't know if it made a difference? Wishing you all the best!