Hi,I'm hoping someone will help me with this... I have had unprotected sex with my partner a few days ago (2-3 days ago) but just for a while,I'm sure he precummed in me because he was at the point where he had to pull out but he didn't and tried to not cum in me_so i personally am sure he at least pre cummed a little bit.I'm not convinced that i am pregnant,i just find this strange that what has happened after that,has started happening right after we did that! Well,this morning i woke up from a dream with stomach pains that is very sore and it went from the middle to the left side for a whole while,paining like hell,and after a while of that,it just stopped,just like that,i was surprised about it myself,i went to the bathroom to wee and i saw this slimy looking stuff coming out of my vagina,i stuck my fingers in and as i looked it was clear and it was sticky,i am not sure what is was or is in fact,but im hoping someone will tell me what they think it is,also,Ive noticed that the pain has not completely gone away,its still there even now as im typing,i can feel it and it nauseates me a bit actually and it not period pain,well i don't think so because when ever i get period pain its not painful from the middle to the one side,but rather from both sides and its normally a sharp strong pain like muscles contracting all the time,it never goes away and the pain does not lessen,this what im having is different,im not so sure what it can be,can anybody tell me?
Francisca, It sounds like he cummed in you. Pre-cum comes out before ejaculation and is not related to ejaculation but arousal. It is what makes the head of his penis wet and lubricated when he gets aroused. The function of pre-cum is to clean the penis from things that can damage the sperm when he ejaculates (urine left overs) and get the pH right.
The most dangerous form of pull-out is when a man tries to prevent himself from ejaculation or if he is very aroused and excited or very young. Under these circumstances, he can arrive at what is called the point of no return where he can not help himself but ejaculate. It does not matter if he's got images of your father with a shot gun pointed at him, or 10 babies calling his name in his mind. he can not stop ejaculation.
The slimy stuff coming out of you the next day is either your normal cervical mucus, yeast infection or left over semen that will often drip out over the next day.
It is MUCH too soon for any pregnancy signs. These will normally appear at the very earliest 8 to 10 days after ovulation (ovulation, not sex).
Stop messing around and use condoms!! Pull-out is not a birth control method. Why would you rely on something you do not have control over, even though you are the one that will live with the results?