I would like to know a safe, and better way to clean myself after having sex. Of course, I clean myself as normal (shower), but because my partner and I do not use condoms, after a day or two there is an oder as the secretions drain ( sorry!)(does this happen to everyone?). This has always happened. It's not a foul oder but it's definitely an oder. I can tell something has been going on in there. Is there something wrong or is this normal? I never hear anyone talk about it and my friends and I talk about everything (and it's a bunch of us). I try to only douche after my period, I can't douche every time I have sex. Please help me! This is embarrassing! I'm not sure if anyone else can smell, but I can, and I al ready have a BIG complex about my order, so stinking is a problem for me. Please, please help me!