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Hi all,
I just wanted to start this topic because it is interesting to me and maybe could help some of you. If you have a circumcised partner and have experienced pain, discomfort, lack of sensation, emotional disconnect, etc., it may well be BECAUSE he's circumcised. I (and MANY other women) have spent time feeling like it was my fault, or that the "chemistry" wasn't right, but I found out that wasn't it--it's because his penis wasn't natural, not MEANT to be in a vagina by nature. Please check out this website if you think this applies to you. There is foreskin restoration which can make the experience much better for both of you. Everyone deserves to have natural, pleasurable, pain-free sex with the one they love. Smile

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This is not to put anyone down or challenge anyone's personal experience. I'm only intending to open dialogue and offer this to any women who are having trouble with sex in hopes that it could shed light on their problems, as it did for me. If it improves one couple's relationship, I'll be happy. I highly recommend the book "Sex As Nature Intended It" but the website is packed with information as well. Hope it helps someone!
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replied September 14th, 2008
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Where did you get this idea??
Sorry, but a circumcised penis is not meant for sex??

I'm afraid I have to disagree with almost everything you have stated so far in your post.

Circumcised penis does not in anyway cause pain, discomfort... etc. in their partners.

If they do feel such "symptoms" it is not because of the man's penis but most likely something else.

I may not be the most experienced in this forum for I have only one sex partner but she is always have been more than satisfied.

My friends, who many are girls, never ever complained about such pain and discomfort and etc... when they have sex with their partners and when they do complain of it, it is usually because:

-It's her first time
-He is well endowed
-Not in the mood
-She's drunk
-Etc.

I mean what ever the reasons may be, it is almost never because of a man's penis.

If it is, well then it is not due to the fact that he is circumcised or not. Maybe the man isn't doing right, maybe he has not gotten his technique down pat, or maybe it's his first time and does not know what to do.

You should know that so many of the problems you have stated can be caused by so many other things besides the circumcised penis.

I have never heard anyone complain about the male penis before in regards to whether he is circumcised or not. Sure I have heard of size problems or ejaculation problems but circumcision??

Here is a link to forum that actually ask the woman in this forum if they prefer a circumcised penis or not. If what you state is true then it should be in this post too.

Is it though? No, not at all.

None of the women so far has complained about the circumcised penis. In that post, all there are the woman's preference on what they like.

Link:http://www.ehealthforum.com/health/to pic16787.html

Here is a another link: http://www.ehealthforum.com/health/topic12 1812_20.html

This one is discussing rather or not they should circumcise their son. Again no mention of discomfort or pain experienced by women.

Another link: http://www.ehealthforum.com/health/topic47 632.html

Another link: http://www.ehealthforum.com/health/topic25 681.html

So far in my search, no women have complained about a circumcised penis directly causing pain and discomfort.

Actually, if this is as a big of a problem you state this is, then I would love for fellow forum members to post here and say that they have a problem directly related with/caused by their partner's circumcised penis.

Again, I completely disagree with you but please know that this is not an attack on you.

It is merely a post expressing my views and opinions on the subject you have brought up.

I wish you a good day

-Peter
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replied October 12th, 2008
I am not circumsided
And i am happy that i am not, all of the woman i been was perfectly satusfay, and i worked in israel ,where all man are ciurcuncided and cupple of doc told me that uncircucieed man are able to give more pleasure and recive too, because circusiding some nervous rterminal are interrupted and amn have not the same senations
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replied October 13th, 2008
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Well the question was if the woman have any problems with circumcised penis but yes I agree with you. Circumcised or not, one is able to enjoy sex and satisfy their partners.

-Peter
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replied May 4th, 2010
There is a big controversy raging now over the effects of circumcision on a woman's pleasure and comfort during sex. It affects the issue of cut or don't cut your baby boy. It's not just the woman's experience that is at issue, but the man being possibly put at a competitive disadvantage. Until the controversy is resolved the benefit of a doubt should certainly go to don't cut your boy. And I don't think any plausible argument has been made that offsets the testimony of men circumcised in adulthood, confirmed in empirical studies, that they don't enjoy sex as much as they used to. So again, stop cutting! It's absurd to cut your boy because you're too proud to have him look a little different!
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replied June 4th, 2011
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Fortunately this is still parental choice, subjective in each case from social upbringing and knowledge level of the parents. The end result is the cross to bear by the child, agreed, but the legal side still has the parents in control.
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replied May 4th, 2010
There is a big controversy raging now over the effects of circumcision on a woman's pleasure and comfort during sex. It affects the issue of cut or don't cut your baby boy. It's not just the woman's experience that is at issue, but the man being possibly put at a competitive disadvantage. Until the controversy is resolved the benefit of a doubt should certainly go to don't cut your boy. And I don't think any plausible argument has been made that offsets the testimony of men circumcised in adulthood, confirmed in empirical studies, that they don't enjoy sex as much as they used to. So again, stop cutting! It's absurd to cut your boy because you're too proud to have him look a little different!
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replied May 5th, 2010
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There's actually the absence of any controversy. There are a lot of very well established facts that at best are semantically argued. Not only do men not have any difference of experience whether they are circumcised or not but women are proven to be unable to identify a circumcised penis from uncircumcised one during sex.

In truth women just don't care that much about what's dangling between your thighs. By the time they have any clue if your circumcised or not they're way passed making a decision to sleep with you. Be more concerned about re-attaching your mind than your foreskin, it's a far more sex organ to women.
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replied May 6th, 2010
Well said W0LF. I have had quite a few partners and when we have chatted about past lovers, absolutely none of them have noticed any difference in lovemaking from uncircumcised or circumcised men. People have their son''s circumcised for religious, clinical or hygiene purposes. There are some very purist believers out there concerned about how "nature intended'' us to be, but did nature ever expect us to shave, cut our hair, shower, live in centrally heated houses, do a 9 to 5 job, etc etc etc? I would say that about 95% of our daily lives is not what ''nature intended'' but that doesn''t mean it will cause harm. I agree with W0LF that women are turned on by men''s (and women''s) minds, how we act and what we say rather than a piece of skin on the nether regions!
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replied September 23rd, 2011
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Well said W0LF. I have had quite a few partners and when we have chatted about past lovers, absolutely none of them have noticed any difference in lovemaking from uncircumcised or circumcised men. People have their son''s circumcised for religious, clinical or hygiene purposes. There are some very purist believers out there concerned about how "nature intended'' us to be, but did nature ever expect us to shave, cut our hair, shower, live in centrally heated houses, do a 9 to 5 job, etc etc etc? I would say that about 95% of our daily lives is not what ''nature intended'' but that doesn''t mean it will cause harm. I agree with W0LF that women are turned on by men''s (and women''s) minds, how we act and what we say rather than a piece of skin on the nether regions!
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