Ive just had a positive test for chlamydia, so now im panicking i could have something worse or be infertile? Thing is i've been in a long-term relationship since the end of 2006, my partner supposedly had a test shortly after we'd got together and was clear thus prooving both of us to have had nothing..or so i stupidly thought, i don't even know for definate whether or not he knew or did not know if he had anything, he did turn out to have issues with the truth from the smallest pointless things so i cant really believe anything he told me. We've recently ended and I got the chlamydia test in the post, i was certain i was allclear as i had been checked before getting with my partner, but luckily just did it anyway and found I had tested positive, now im so worried i could be infertile as if he had it all along and just didn't say I could have had it for 2 years, what are my chances of still being fertile? Im going to go to the GUM clinic to be checked for other STIs aswell, but I need to tell my old boyfriend that I was tested a positive result and he must have it..despite I know his reaction will be "no i don't" and he won't even look into it, also with his extremely immature attitude i know he will make it public knowledge to all of his and my own friends. & probably insult me for having it when I know the only way I could have caught it is off him, and so he must have it, if he had it all along I could have had it for 2 years so my chances of fertility are likely to be? however it may of been less time as he probably did sleep with other people while we were together.. nice man i know. So apart from my own health & fertility do I speak to him about this or not? I mean I know his reaction, he may even know he has it and I know I should tell him but can you understand why I am considering not telling him? He had supposedly been tested throughout our relationship several times, or so he said, so surely something doesn't add up?
Anyway thank god I took that test & thank god I saw my senses and ended the relationship!
Sorry if that is very jumbled and hard to understand..lots of thoughts keep jumping in to my mind as I'm very stressed about this!!