Hi,
I am posting this because i would really like to chat to people who are worrying like i am and maybe for some advice, also to vent i guess.
Please listen to my story.
I got with my previous partner in august 2005, the first time i ever had unprotected sex was with him. We split up in june 2006 which resulted me in sleeping with a few guys, always protected. Me and my ex get back together in the August 2006 and i confessed that i had been with a few people since we split, he was angry so made me get a test incase i had given him any sti's, he was really horrible about it all.
So, i get myself tested in novemeber 2006, things weren't too great between me and him and we split a few days after i got tested. Whilst waiting for my results I got drunk and lost my phone, i thought it had been 2 weeks so i thought i was all clear of sti's.
I met someone in jan 2007 and then we split up in march 2007, i then started seeing my ex again for a month or 2 then broke up again. I decided to get myself tested in the may 2007, 2 weeks later i received the phonecall saying i have chlamydia, i received the treatment right away. which was 4 tablets in one dose and was told it would be clear in 7 days.
I recently met someone in october 2008 and i plan to be with him for the rest of my life, it got me thinking about children. I came off the pill 6 months ago and i have still not conceived.
I have been tested for sti's in january this year and it came back negative so i was relieved about that.
I started to think about the time i got tested back in november 2006 and whether i had it or not then because at this point infertility has been a big worry of mine, i found out the other day i did have chlamydia in november 2006 and they tried calling me and calling me but because i lost my phone they couldn't inform me, i was so angry because i could have had that chlamydyia for nearly two years and theres now an even more chance of me being infertile!
Oh and to make things confusing i spoke to the guy i first slept with in 2005 and he was tested around june 2007 and came back negative!!! even though he had slept with me unprotected time and time again!
I want to know exactly how long can you have chlamydia before it damages you and turns into PID? i sometimes get pains during sexual intercourse but they are not unbearable.
Please can anyone else reply with any experiences like mine?
Thanks for spending time reading this.