He can kiss my derriere, as far as I am concerned seeing a woman bent over makes my day Rolf, instead of a guy but one can never say no lol.
That guy has some issues, it is not social conditioning, it is not a diesease and its because of a foundation of religious beliefs that have led people to be narrow-minded. I am not knocking all religious factors but I am to the ones who have bigotry as their first nature.
I have just started being more open about my sexuality, I used to keep my relationships with woman utterly locked up and only shared with some close friends.
I wish he could be empathetic and understand us, our attraction to the same sex was never chosen but it is something that makes us happy. If I could tell you how happy I am with a woman over a male I may actually cry, there is a difference and I noticed I am myself with a woman over a male.
I always feel tied down in relationships with males, like I need to live up to something that I am not, I also feel unattracted to the majority of them!
"Just my two cents"