omg do not believe him, he's caught red handed...idk why guys feel like if they deny it then its not true...don't be naive hunny..if you let him get away with it he will surely do it again and laugh about how easy it was to get away with..be glad the girl was honest with you and brought it to your attention, the emails dont lie...a guy a while back msged me wantin to hang out and "hook up", i saw on his profile he had a gf as well and mentioned it to him...he brushed it off, i feel bad for not saying something to her bc crap like that shouldn't go unnoticed if the guy is a snake it needs to be brought to her attention so she can either a)set him straight or b) leave him and move on

i know... i feel like its right infront of me.. i just want him to admit it. lying is the worst part of it all.

i just dont know how to go forward from now, every time i bring it up he get mad and blames me saying " i thought we already sorted it out, theres nothing i can do cause i dont know how it all got there"
i love him... but how do i accept it or keep pushing it

first of all, this needs to be sorted out..he NEEDS to STOP lying and man up to it so you guys can sort the mess out and hopefully move on(if you wish to do so) with your relationship..do not let him sit there and deny it, tell him..we havent sorted it out bc you refuse to admit and discuss the truth with me! the only way you'll ever be able to move on from this is if it is discussed and you get him to admit to it, i'm tellin you..its only a matter of time before he does it again if he knows he can push you around like this...dont let him turn anything on you hunny you didn't do ANYTHING..i'm stubborn, if theres something I want to know and my boyfriend is unclear about it or beats around the bush, i dont drop it until its discussed..tell him you're unwilling to move on from this until you can sort it out and once you sort it out and he comes clean then you can discuss what to do with the relationship

I absolutely agree with worrywart01. This guy was caught 'red-handed' cheating on you via email or whatever and he needs to own up to it. You both need to discuss this and determine what or why he was doing this and talk it out. Until you get this resolved you will always have doubts, but be prepared for the possibility that this could be a relationship deal-breaker. Also, you need to think about how you will feel with the situation going forward, even if or when he admits to what he was doing. Can you move past this, forgive his this indiscretion and move on or will this be something that will remain in the back of your mind.
This type of thing is never easy to handle.


Wendy