Do u think that he has changed wit u? My last boyfirend was very sweet and everything but then he started to change and not want to go out places, have u asked him about it. if u ask him and he gets upset or starts a fight then thats ur answer he is cheating but u have to know if its not that girl that trying to make u think that he is cheating. i would have to tell to talk it him about it and ask him if he is cheating on u.

how long have u guys been together? my boyfriend cheated on me a month ago. weve been together for 2 yrs but known each other 4 almost 5yrs. for the first time we went thru a rough patch in our relationship. he claimed I didn't understand how much he had given up jus to be wit me. I later found out he meant his promescuity. he used to be a serial dater but when he met me he forced himself to change because he wanted to be with me.

which wasn't a good thing because if he wasn't 100% sure he wanted to give monogamy a try he shouldn't have gotten with me. eventually the strain got to him. we got in a fight, he cheated on me with one girl for 2mnths and once he wanted to end it with her and wanted to work on our relationship it was too late. I had found out thru the girl.

that's why I tell you to not jump to conclusions and DO confront him. although he will be super angry at you for cheking his phone and voicemail. I know your scared of losing him, but men sometimes have to lose us or be so close to losing us for them to really understand.

but believe me, ifyou keep looking thru his things it will get bad. cause then he won't trust you and you won't trust him. but just be strong and don't cry infront of him. show him you won't be taken for a fool




I do admit first mistake I did in our relationship was look thru his txts. but he gave me reason to. yea if you ask him if he's cheating on you he won't admit to it. I had to catch mines and present all the evidence before he cracked.u would not believe how many times I asked him straight in his face if he was messing around and he always denied it.

has he ever given u reason to doubt him? if he has then I understand why your freaking out. if he hasn't and this is the first time he's weird wit you then it could jus be this girl is trying to make things rockie. you have to be really careful cause I had to get my heart broken to finally understand that most men don't really care aslong as their getting away with it.

its harsh but unfortunately its true. be a strong woman, show him you can do you and be independent.

yeh i agree you have to find out for your own piece of mind confront him although try not to go in all guns blazing as you will both just row approach the subject calmly if you can Jenny

read between the lines. when she said are you coming over tonight or not. that sounds like he comes over a lot and she was confused about this particular day.

do let him use, lie, treat you bad. trust your intuitions, if you think he is, then he probably is cheating.

he's not going to admit it if you confront him, but i would still talk to him just to let him know your on to him.

some people stay with their partner after their infidelity, i did, but he didnt change much afterwards.