I have been suspicious of my boyfrined for months now. I read him txts and there were some messages form a girl who i had met once and he often refers to her as a friend. I am obbsesed with reading his messages and last night i checked his voice mail from my phone. She had left a message saying "hi its just me can you let me know if you are comming over tonight or what" I was so upset, i just dont know how to confront him.....i dont want to loose him but i cant hadle this anymore i need to confront him. i feel so sick and i dont know who to turn to as my best frined is his cousin and i dont want to cause trouble...Any suggestion?????
My partner cheated on my while I was pregnant. I know how your feeling but you need to have it out with him or it will eat away at you. only you can decide if you stay with him or not but the trust is gone and the pain and suspicion lasts for years. Trust me I know.
hey sorry about what you found but i agree with the others you need to confront him about it definatley before you drive yourself mad but i would ask him in a calm method rather that guns blazing even if that's what u wanna do try not to as it will fuel the situation, give him a chance to explain himself, i hope it turns out to be something innocent for you good luck keep us posted Jenny