Hi I'm new to this site and would like to hear from any one who cares to answer. Here goes this evening my husband and I got to talking about women and sex after a site I accidently came across while looking for info. about a medical problem I'm having on the computer. Well we talked about different things and he said in a kind way of course, but it still bothered me because I'm going through a lot of medical problems, and a few months ago I was told I was also post menapause (I turned 49 in June,) he said that I seem to have a different smell now than I did when I wasn't in menapause "you know the sexual smell of the vaginal region". he said not a bad smell just a different smell not the kind of smell that makes you want to have oral sex as much like before,Well that added one more brick to the load I'm carrying, I'm don't want to cry in front of him but tomorrow when he's gone to work and my son goes to school I'm going to have one of those ugly face cries. Has any of you heard or been told this and if not would you mind asking your husband if you seem to smell different, "but don't tell them about me asking, I know it shouldn't make any difference but somehow it does you know what I mean?" Thanks