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Q: Chances of blood in second intercourse

asked by: hsrk on July 19th, 2009

New User

Sir/Madam

i am 25 yrs old guy, i tried having sex with my girl friend(23yrs) . intially when i tried penetrating she screamed of pain & bleeded.
i didnt even penetrate my tip completely & since she yelled i didnt proceed further.

but now i feel that i have spoiled her life . i dont want her to face problems after she get married to other person.

my question is . when she have sex in future, whether she will bleed again???
since i have not completely penetrated i feel that her hymen is not teared completely.
if she bleeds again her husband will not have any doubt on her, otherwise she may have to face problem in her married life.

Please give me your thoughts,whether chances of bleeding for second time is there or not???

Replies(7)

W0LF

replied on July 19th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Non menstrual bleeding after the hymen is torn is unusual. The blood contained behind the hymen should be washed out just about completely the next time your girlfriend bathes. If you are seeing significant bleeding after that time it's possibly caused by trauma and should be taken seriously.

kdlee

replied on July 21st, 2009

Supporter

hsrk-it sounds like you broke through the hyman and it can hurt very much depending on how thick it is..I think since this washer first try and you did stop before going any further then she just might bleed again..By the time she marries unless it's within the next few the tissue probably will tighten back up and she will be ok..

but now i feel that i have spoiled her life . i dont want her to face problems after she get married to other person
It sounds though like even though she is your girlfriend that you have no plans on marrying her..If non marriage is the case why did go this route of sex when I bet it is the custom of that your girlfriend be a virgin..
Are you purposely trying to hurt her for the rest of her life? kd

hsrk

replied on July 22nd, 2009

New User

Dear kd ,
thank you for your answer.
i can understand your point,but i have got severe opposition from my parents for this marriage.

kdlee

replied on July 22nd, 2009

Supporter

hrsk--if you already knew you could not do right by her -why did you take her virginity? The one thing she had to offer..

I cannot feel sorry for you becasue you cow tail to your parents opposition to the marriage..What about your girlfriend?

beerat1189

replied on July 22nd, 2009

New User

That does sound very hurtful. Have you told your girlfriend that you have no intentions of having a life commitment to her? When a girl gives you her virginity it is a BIG deal. Also, if you are 25 years old why don't you step up and be a man. It does not matter whether or not your parents "oppose" the marriage or not if you truly love this girl.
Man, good thing you guys didn't go the full mile... can't imagine you impregnating her.

Jazzy77

replied on July 22nd, 2009

Experienced User

kdlee wrote:

hrsk...i agree with kdlee. you should leave this girl alone if you have no intention of marrying her. you are doing her a tremendous disservice. if you can (and will) stand up to your family to have this woman for your wife, then fine, but otherwise, you are ruining her chance of having a good life for herself and you are very selfish by doing so.

jasmine

W0LF

replied on July 24th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

HSRK
Your parents may know things about your relationship with this girl that we don't. However I would suggest you ask friends or coworkers that know her personally what they think. Parents want what is best for their children but often they don't know what that is.

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