With HIV, it doesn't matter who is on top because what happens during sex it that little cuts and tears occur on the membrane of the anus in this case and on the tip of the penis. These cuts and tears become an avenue for the virus or anything else the person has to get into the bloodstream. The only way to know is mbae what you are doing. Getting a blood test. The results should be in at about a two weeks wait. The waiting can be stressful as I can remember waiting for my test results almost 16 years ago. And guess what, I am still here in the planet. I don't know which country you are in but in some countries, HIV/AIDS is no longer a death sentence. Life goes on. Yes you might be angry if you are infected but you will soon learn to forgive and let go. Takes two to tangle. It is not easy to let go but it is doable. Let's hope you did not catch anything.

Please let us know about your test results.

All the best to you
Muthoni (Mson)