So I started seeing this girl about two months ago. It all started off normal and I was getting to know her like I would any other girl. I saw a lot of things that I liked about her but still no feelings. We had a great time together and a lot of amazing memories that I will never forget. Then on her birthday for whatever reason I started to feel something for her and everything was going amazing. A week later we have sex and from the second we were done she started to act weird. We would still talk every day as if things were normal but she had a talk with me about how she felt things were moving fast and she didn't want to rush into things and wanted to keep her options open but she did like me and feel something there. We kept talking but seeing her was like pulling teeth. I tried bringing it up with her a few times and basically the same conversations would happen. Now she has been telling me she still wants to get to know me but we barely see each other and even talking with her over text seems weird. She doesn't respond as quick, sometimes the conversations are pointless and short too. I'm kind of turned off because she says she wants to get to know other guys and whatnot to see what it is she wants in a guy because she got out of a 4 year relationship and that I'm an amazing guy and I'm more than she could ever ask for but she is all confused. It's weird because I've never felt this way and all I can do is keep thinking about her. Any other girl that I'm talking to doesn't compare and even when I'm with them I still think of her. So now I'm all confused and as much as she has been different I know that she is capable of being this amazing girl that I would want to be with. I know that I treated her amazing and actually cared. I showed her that I was nothing like any of the bad guys that she had ever been with. I think basically it came down to her being scared that things were being rushed. I just don't know what to do. It's driving me nuts! Now I cannot decide if I should just have a conversation with her basically saying how she is an amazing girl but has changed and that she is not the girl I thought she was and cut her off. Or just cut her off and don't respond to any messages anymore. Or just tell her straight up I have feelings and I cannot talk to her anymore. Or ask her out a few times and when she says she can't all of those times just call her out on it and cut it off. Or just keep being dragged along and keep thinking about her just showing less effort? There is a dumb saying in my head that I've always for some reason that I've always remembered: sometimes you have to let something go and if it is meant to be it will come back. Maybe this is what I have to do? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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