no its normal did it ONLY happen once?
if your hard and then you put one on maybe your not use to a condom or something but no matter what its normal, your not in danger or unhealthy im sure

Try different comdoms. U might be having a reaction to the chemicals in it. Try a non-lube one.

my ex boyfriend had the same problem he would be hard and all of a sudden once he saw the condom he seemed to distruct. this brought nothing but sadness in me.. Its simple you know in your head that the condom will not be the same as with out one.. No matter what WEAR IT.. You need to concentrate on having the pleasure on having sex. You should also try the girl put it on u instead of you. Her hands might help you while messaging your penis.

This post is a tad old... but here goes anyway. A few years ago, I had a similar problem and it all but brought me to tears. After starting over from a relationship that lasted almost a decade (with my partner using only IUDs), I used condoms to protect myself and found that I'd perform terribly.

I'd go from rock solid to wiggly soft within moments of putting-on a condom... and efforts to revive my erection only lasted briefly. I thought my problem was related to stress or anxiety... but it simply turned out to be the size of condoms that I used.

A spoke to a friend and pharmacist discretely one night and bought a bigger size based on her suggestion. I always thought condoms were made with a "one size fits all" approach and I was wrong. With the bigger size, my performance was much better. I was able to mainitain an erection and perform satisfactorily (in my opinion). So maybe all you need is a bigger size.

If you go soft before youput it on, then the problem may be psychological. If this helps, please post a reply so that others will be helped as well.

Good luck!