Alright first of all let me thank all of you who are reading and responding to this post.

Second of all, let me give you a quick summary of my problem. Ok I am a 23 year old male, and me and my now ex girlfriend just recently broke up. We dated for two and half years, and were very sexually active. I found out that she made out with some people, and plus the fact that i graduated college and will be attending a law school away from my undergrad campus (where she will be for one more year) we decided to call it quits and see what happens.

Naturally, after this i tried to hook up with as many girls as i could, and i found a girl that i am really attracted to, and we hang out a lot. We have tried to have sex 3 times, and 2 of the times i was erect enough to start having sex but then 10 minuets into the sex, i would lose my erection. Its also weird because the first time we tried it happened, and the most recent time it happened, but the 2nd time i was money.

I cannot deny, that i still have feelings for my ex girlfriend, and i am also still very attracted to her. I am pretty sure i do not have ED or anything like that, but im just getting frustrated with this re accruing problem. How am i supposed to get over my ex if i cant even properly rebound? Does anyone have any ideas to over come this strange problem....i feel like my ex still has me on lock down even after we broke up, i can feel her laughing at me every time it happens, not really but please help.