my boyfriend and i are completly comfortable with eachother, were both happy and we have fun fooling around. however ive never been even close to reaching orgasm. ive tried it myself and i find that clit stimulation gives me and most "feeling" however eventhough i like it it just ends up making me feel like i have to pee then if i persist i feel over sensitive and need to stop. ive read the steps of the sexual process (desire, arousal, platau, orgasm and relaxation) however i find that eventhough i have desire and playing around gives me feeling i dont feel my body going through the stages of arousal. the changes your body should go through dont happen excpet maybe my heart rate quickens a little. i cant get farther. im not sure what else to do??