I have recently experienced something similar. I keep reading that its all psychological and to just convince myself through this. I am 29 and definitely should not be having these problems. I know it annoys my partner, and aggravates me to end. I find her very attractive, and until a few weeks ago, this was not really a problem. It happened maybe 3 or 4 times since we've been together (for well over a year).

While I am not a fan of going to the doctors, I feel like I need to check in now. I have had some family stuff go on, and some stuff still is, so its there in my mind, but I feel sometimes like while I want to have sex, the sex drive in my body just doesn't respond. Its weird, embarrassing and horribly annoying. Could someone please offer some advice. If its a psychological thing, how do I power through this? If not, what can it be?

Thank you