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Q: cannot have orgasm with boyfriend ?

asked by: SoccerChick on February 4th, 2009

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Even though I have no problem making my bf come, I just cannot seem to climax when he does stuff to me. I have masturbated before, but for some odd reason he doesn't can't make me orgasm. I get really turned on and wet, but when he uses his fingers I feel good, but then I feel like I have to pee. Is that normal? And then I fake an orgasm, just so that sensation will go away so I won't be embarrassed. I don't want to keep lying to my bf though, because I know it would break him. HELP anyone?

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choklate_milk

replied on February 5th, 2009

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the feeling of the "peeing" is him hitting your G-spot.. yes its natural to feel like that.

Its normal not to have orgasms with your boyfriend.. it is heartbreaking.. and i think you should tell him that youve been faking it.

Its a shot to the EGO for him.. but tell him so you can work through it.
(easier said than done right?)

I faked orgasms for 2 years.. then told him.. he was upset for a while.. he stopped having sex with me.. then he finally came around and started to try new things..

I orgasm fine now.. dont be afraid.. he will come around

SoccerChick

replied on February 5th, 2009

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Alright.
Its just the reason that I started faking it was the fact that he said he couldn't make his last girlfriend come even when they had sex.
So I freaked when he started to do stuff with me, because I thought "what if he doesn't make me come?" and so I faked it.
And he seemed so happy when I "came" that I just kept faking it.
I meant to tell him sooner, I just didn't know how, and now it would be so hard to tell him.

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