I am a 23-year-old woman, and have been sexually active since I was 15. I started masturbating when I was 8 years old using my fingers on the right-side of my clitoris. I have used the same technique until I was old enough to purchase my own vibrator. Unfortunately, I am not able to feel any pleasure when engaging in intercourse with my spouse unless his penis hits my g-spot (meaning no orgasms). I get extremely aroused, to the point of humping a chair lol, but any stimulation other than a vibrator to the side of my clitoris results in absolutely nothing...
I can feel his penis or the object that I am using in my vagina, but no pleasure is derived from my efforts. Plain and simple, only certain vibrators with clitoral stimulation came make me orgasm.
Now I was reading in one of these forums that a woman went to her doctor and was prescribed testerone to apply directly to her clitoris, which she claimed worked. Has this treatment been known to work?
Please do not tell me to relax or try oral, as I already have. Only the people who are experiencing these symptoms can truly understand the frustration.
Testosterone is the attraction hormone. If you have a low sex drive, it can help you. Your problem does not sound like an sex drive issue.
Applying testosterone on your clitoris is not going to help you get a vaginal orgasm. It will enlarge your clitoris and make you more horny.
What you are experiencing is normal. Most women does not orgasm from vaginal penetration, unless they get sufficient clitoral stimulation at the same time. And you know this. You are describing it in detail yourself above. Even when you are controlling your sex toys yourself, you cannot give yourself a vaginal orgasm.
So you have 3 choices:
* Live with it
* Find a sexual position where your clitoris get enough stimulation. Normally you on top where you control your full sexual experience and you can angle your hips to grind your clitoris on him.
* Take your vibrator to bed with you. While he is inside you, use it, or rub with your fingers, and grind, and let him rub your clitoris with his fingers.