okay so i am 18 and like i can't sustain
an erection sometimes... and when i put a
condom on it goes limp almost instantly.
how am i getting this problem so early in
life? and what do i do?
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danielv
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Posted: 07-22-08 07:49am
it often has more to do with your state of
mind rather than the acrobatic ability of
your penis. don't worry and try to keep a
positive attitude. being sexually aroused
is a very complicated process that is
connected to our emotions. if you're
constantly worried of "underperforming"
then you will only make it worse.
don't let your penis be the measurement of
your self-confidence. if you find ways to
respect yourself, find a girl who is right
for you (one who respects you for who you
are) then i'm sure you won't have any
problems.
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dreavgona
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Jul 2008 Posts: 6
Posted: 07-23-08 01:22am
Had that same problem for quite a while
(im 26), and a simple solution for the
condom problem is to simply have your
partner continue to stimulate you while
you deal with the condom. Also, keeping
your mind off the condom usually helps,
looking at your partner and maybe kissing
may be of great help.
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Trip
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2008 Posts: 9
me 2 Posted: 08-10-08 01:20am
yea i'm having the same exact issues but
i'm only 16 and the girl i'm having sex
with has been my gf for 3 years now on and
off. please help.