How are you all doing?? cool. Basically in the past three/four months I've attempted to get with three different girls. The first one I failed, the second, and yes you guessed right, the third as well. See I just think I can't show enough confidence in person. On MSN, or through texting.. or even on the phone I can hit on a girl easily but when it comes to in person I clearly am proving to be self concious. But the worst part about it is I'm constantly being decieved. Explain this situation to me. The other night i hung out with my buddy and two girls. One who was interested in my buddy and the other (lets call her Sam) who apparantly wasn't interested in me. That night we watched a movie. Sam was all over me. She fell asleep in my arms for frigs sakes. The next day I find out she is dating someone and isn't interested in me. To me that entire situation seems to scream "I AM INTERESTED IN YOU!", don't you think? What makes it all the more confusing to me is that that night was the first time I hung out with sam in a somewhat unpublic situation, like a party. Am I that oblivious? or was largely mislead. Anyway The other two girls before her were technically the same deal. I was mislead. Can anyone relate to this? or even explain it to me because I am beginning to get frustrated and it's tearing me appart.

If it makes any difference, I am 18 years old and work full time, saving to go to university. Basically i gruel over having a girlfriend nightly and i keep get screwed over. Anyway thanks for reading!!! Hit me back if you know how I feel.. or can give me any kind of pointer.